Built for change, not just coping

Surviving the Workplace Jungle, our first program, helps you transcend “difficult” or toxic work situations.

“There’s nothing else around like this.” 

Surviving the Workplace Jungle

Stress at work is normal. Work distress is not. 

This is the support you need, to move through “difficult” or toxic work situations with agency.
In-depth resources, exercises and sessions grounded in research, lived experience and trust.
Feel truly supported, make meaningful progress with resilience, insight, and skill.
“When something happens at work we always come back to ‘what could I have done differently’. But this helps you understand what you’re up against and how to navigate it vs. fixating on what you could have done.” 
Hi,
I'm Subarna, the founder.
After building in behavioral health, navigating support myself, and seeing the journeys of loved ones, I know that when you hit a really hard patch, the “right” support can be a hit or miss. You may find advice, therapy, coaching, or peer support— and still fail to address your experience fully and move forward systematically.
Work is a great example. My career’s taken me through software engineering, strategy consulting and leading products at startups. Throughout, I saw and experienced how people who pull off enormously complex work, can be blindsided by “difficult” and toxic situations and behaviors. I dug into the research and talked to people. The toll is serious but the “right” support –  in-depth research-backed support in the format that's most helpful, to really understand what’s happening, build resilience, and recover your footing with skills, tactics and a strategy that fits real life – is missing. 
I’m building Tonik because people deserve the “right” support when life throws them a curve ball. Surviving the Workplace Jungle is where we begin.
Wondering if this is right for you? You don't have to figure it out just yet. Submit the form below, we’ll have a quick chat to learn more, and take it from there if it’s a good mutual fit.
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Work distress is complex.

Work is a double-edged sword. It can be deeply fulfilling but distress from "difficult" or toxic situations and behaviors can do real damage – even if we think it's normal.

It can feel confusing, unfair, or worse, leaving you drained and second-guessing yourself.

"What's going on?"

“Is this annoying — or toxic? Am I overreacting — or under-responding?” 

“Where do I go from here?”

It erodes your confidence, quality of life, and even the ability to think clearly.

Anxiety, anger and other “icky” feelings can be hard to shake off even after you've moved on.

“People are not really taught to talk about work or to deal with difficult situations. This was more grounding than anything else I’ve done before.”

“It was wonderfully affirmative and made me confident and optimistic and feel less of a victim.”

The right support is missing …

We white-knuckle through it alone — but that makes it worse. 

Talking to friends and family helps, until it doesn't. Workshops and drop-in groups offer some hope. But meaningful shifts take depth.

It's hard to know where to turn. A therapist? A coach? Peer groups? Community? 

Unburdening yourself to someone feels good but support can be hit or miss. 

If it – isn’t in-depth, evidence-based, tailored to your experience, or in the right format – relief fades quickly or the cycle repeats.

“It made me confident and optimistic. Understanding the emotional aspect of practical things and acknowledging issues and their complexity was very grounding.” 

“It was real and honest but safe. The discussion was real, transparent and vulnerable – there was no pressure to perform, network or mentor.”

We are building support as it should be

Specialized
Built ground-up for work related issues  

In-depth insights and techniques
From workplace research, psychology, behavioral science, neuroscience and practical experience 

Curated resources
Conveniently accessible

Personalized exercises
Tailored in-depth to your needs

Sessions that surpass 1:1 support
Expertly facilitated, for insights and support that's not possible 1:1 – with a small, carefully matched group 

Feel better and more equipped to tackle work and life – and start moving ahead, in just 8 weeks 

“I was able to understand practical issues much better and see different paths out of the same situation. It gave me a lot of clarity to navigate my issues.”

“The homework, discussion and practical skills made it even better. I really liked the sessions. And the facilitation was much better than regular peer support groups. The group perspectives were very helpful.”

“Shifting to a framework felt very comfortable, safe and productive.I liked the structure.”

The gamut of insights and skills

Perspectives
Make sense of your experience with the right vocabulary and data. See things for what they are, not a personal failing.

Physiology
Understand and regulate your stress response. Build reserves, especially sleep. An arsenal of techniques for steady thoughts, emotions, and energy.

Psychology
Build a solid foundation of self-compassion, self-trust, and confidence. See how you might be setting yourself back. Learn to show up for yourself and hold your own in challenging scenarios – without losing sight of complexity. If circumstances can’t change – minimize the drain with versatile methods.

Practical issues
Avoid friction and common traps. Protect yourself proactively. Assess your situation comprehensively. Confront hard truths. Tackle challenging scenarios with tact. Learn to develop strategy that fits your situation. If change is on the cards, explore the road ahead. Reflect on what you learned, clarify your next steps.

Your actual experience will be tailored to your unique needs in the here and now – over and beyond these topics.

“I really enjoyed the reading. Curation was a big part of the experience.” 

“The insights on regulation upfront, and the techniques were great.” 

The right group is transformative 

Research shows that small, vetted, and expertly facilitated groups can be more helpful than 1-1 support[1]

They foster validation, adaptive coping, and accelerated cognitive and emotional shifts – unlocking progress that takes much longer, if at all. 

Feeling seen and supported, supporting others, and diverse perspectives are incredibly helpful. You’ll feel confident, less alone, test your thinking, and learn from thoughtful people. 

What if I don’t feel like sharing?

You don’t have to. People are surprised by how much they get from simply listening. You’ll never be pushed to share more than you want.

“I really liked the group's perspectives. The facilitation was much better than regular groups.”

“Having other people’s experience to draw on was very helpful. It got me out of my sense of shame. Hearing stories of people who picked themselves up was really inspiring.”

“The communal aspect was really meaningful. I got to connect with intellectual high achieving peers I’d never meet otherwise. I’ve never had a group of peers I could share stuff with that they’d understand. It’s hard to find this anywhere else.”

FAQs

Do I need to know whether my workplace is “toxic”?

No. Many people join because they are confused about what is happening. The program can help you develop a clearer vocabulary and perspective without forcing your experience into a label.

Is this only for people in clearly toxic workplaces?

No. It is for a wide range of difficult situations—from confusing or draining dynamics to more overtly harmful behavior.

Can I join if the situation happened in the past?

Yes. The program is relevant to people navigating current situations and people seeking recovery, closure, insight, or greater preparedness after a past experience.

Why groups?

Research shows that when groups are facilitated in certain formats it can be transformative and more helpful than even 1-1 support.

Why not drop-in sessions? Or webinars or workshops?

To give you the most value. The breadth and depth of insight, discovery, application and community that’s needed for meaningful benefits requires much more than webinars or workshops. They are easy to operationalize but not anywhere as helpful for you. Our format takes a lot of work to pull off, but it's the support you need and deserve.

Are groups screened?

Yes. The introductory process helps us create a small group whose needs, expectations, availability, and readiness are reasonably compatible.

What if I don’t feel like sharing?

You’ll never be pushed to share more than you want, what one participant called "radical candor, without the pressure."

Is this confidential?

Absolutely. Nothing is recorded. Privacy and confidentiality are core expectations for every participant. We never share anything with any third party without your explicit consent. 

Will my employer know?

We don't work with employers. Sessions are not recorded, and participant information is treated as confidential.

Can I participate while seeing a therapist?

Yes. The program may complement other forms of support, but it does not replace clinical care.

Is this therapy? Is it coaching?

It is not psychotherapy, medical care, or a substitute for treatment from a qualified healthcare professional.

It isn’t coaching – although it’s hard to define that in the absence of formal regulation and standards (except for NBCHWC i.e., Nationally Board Certified Health and Wellness Coaching). 

Surviving the Workplace Jungle is an educational and skill-building program in a safe, private, supportive and  carefully facilitated environment, enriched by the perspectives of a rigorously vetted private group. It’s structured, research-backed and whole-person with goals, practical tools, and strategy.

What happens after I submit the form?

We review each form and invite you for a short introductory conversation for both sides to explore fit.

What if I cannot clearly explain what happened?

That is common. A high-level description is enough for the introductory form. 

Did you know?

71% of Americans have had a toxic boss
Women are 41% more likely to experience toxicity
76% of people in toxic workplaces report mental health impact
1 in 4 people dread going to work[2]
22% were harassed at work in 2023 vs. 14% in 2022[3]
22% experience mental health harm due to work[3]
71% have had a toxic boss[4]
52% in toxic workplaces report mental health impact[3]
33% of bullies are women, and far more likely to target women[6]

The fallout

reactivity . shut down . low confidence . unhealthy coping . impaired careers health and relationships . burnout . anxiety . depression . migraines . shame . PTSD . cardiovascular and immune disorders … or worse.

Disclaimer

This program is for educational and informational purposes only. The content and participation in the group sessions do not constitute or substitute for psychotherapy, medical advice, mental health treatment, or any other professional healthcare service. Facilitators are not acting in any capacity as a licensed mental health or medical provider in this group, and no provider-client relationship is established. Facilitation isn’t covered by licensure even if facilitators are licensed. The program doesn’t diagnose or treat a physical or mental illness. If you are in need of mental health treatment or crisis support, please seek care from a healthcare service offered by a qualified healthcare professional.

Footnotes

1. Yalom, I.D. & Leszcz, M. (2020). Burlingame, G.M., et al. (2004)
2. SHRM, 2019
3. APA, 2023
4. Harris Poll, 2023
5. MIT, 2023
6. WBI